Let actions do the talk

The way people act is a more accurate representation of their inner feelings/ motivations, than what they actually say.

We can’t be 100% sure about things, but I believe our actions say more about our true selves than what we actually say.

Relationships are complex. Get more skilled at reading people’s actions, as well as your own, and you will understand better the people around you and your relationships. 


Sergio, reflection about friendships. Conclusion: “let actions do the talk”.

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