TodayZ Lesson

I will be a high well paid coach. It took me 7 years to define my path, and sure enough it will evolve in time. “No hay que llegar primero. Hay que saber llegar”. “A whole life being first, just to realise later it was the wrong race”.  It’s worth the time and effort to find out our true direction. 7 años para que por fin sienta que tengo idea de lo que quiero ser, y ser lo suficientemente valiente para intentarlo.  I will be a high well paid coach, people will find value in my work and it will be positive life changing for my clients. Am I brave enough to follow my passion and purpose? My barriers:  - Feeling embarrassed since most people won’t care about it, and some might even not like it. - My difficulty to admit and search for expert coaches help  - Financial pressures  - Lack of time - Fear to look like a failure once putting more work into it - Divided focus since there are more things I wish to pursue at the same time My advantage:  - My beloved one...

I believe that’s different depending on the stage of life where we are in. It is deeply influenced by our surroundings, upbringing and family. Often times when we finally achieve what we wanted so badly we realise there is some new sense of emptiness, so what really success look like then? During high school and the University, success meant going to a top university, being ahead of everybody else and achieving finding a well paid job, buying a house, and to everybody’s eyes, that person was successful.  I did that. The top University, the engineering, not the job I skipped that, the living overseas, the buying a property and working very hard. Once that was done, it felt good, but what really means success in life? I did all of that to achieve recognition and status.  Now I believe I have a new better idea of what success look like, however, I now encounter a new challenge, the drive to do everything it takes is not there. New fears and self limitations have been strengthenin...